Hausfrau Speaks-Letters from Arias' Mailbag

Arias:

I considered the NORMAL salutation "Dear Jxxx", but, to be honest, I don't know of any person who considers you "dear" right now, and the majority of us are so disgusted with your antics, we don't want to hear your name even one more time, and if we MUST refer to you, we use only your last name.  Perhaps SFY, Slut From Yreka, would work, but that doesn't describe all that you are and gives honest sluts a bad reputation.

Having a personality disorder, or bi-polar, or whatever your diagnosis of the day is, doesn't absolve you of responsibility for your actions.  It is no secret that you left high school over 18 years ago, yet you keep reflecting nothing but the juvenile high school acts of a 16 year old where ever you go.  Instead of "paying your dues" and staying in school another year, you dropped out during your junior year.  Granted, you got a GED--but only because there was nothing else better to do in JAIL!  

Instead of applying that Einsteiny IQ you supposedly have by going to college, you took the easy way; bussing tables and waitressing.  There is no excuse, the REASON you have is that you didn't want to--available are student loans, grants and scholarships, so money is never a viable excuse.  If there's a will, there's a way.

You've chosen the road you walk, no one caused your issues.

People see you for what you are, and as each day passes, they become even more convinced they are seeing your "true self".  In all honesty, I'm offended that you've labeled anyone who disagrees with you "a hater". The things that are said about you are in regard to the choices you've made for yourself.  We see only what you show us, and a good number of us know bullship when we see it or hear it, and the old saying goes "you cannot bullship a bullshipper!"  You also cannot convince someone who has experience true domestic violence that YOU'VE experienced it too, unless you really have!  But more on that in a moment.

According to the Urban Dictionary, a "hater" Is a person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for, or creates problems for a successful person.

Let's take that definition piece by piece.  "A hater is a person who feel anger..."

Yes, most of us ARE angry, but we are angry that you murdered a man who was more than you will ever be! Travis strove to “serve more, love more, give more, and be more.”  You have never tried to do those things, you've never succeeded in those things.

"...and/or jealousy (really?) for someone someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for"

Yea, about that....Sure, we've have always dreamed of being a waitress...and we regret spending that last year getting our high school diploma!  Just how long do you have to train to be a waitress?  I would hate to discover that I wasted all those years getting my college degree and my certifications when I could have been a successful waitress!

"Or creates problems for a successful person."

No one is "causing" your problems! And the only person who might view you as
"successful" is your own narcissistic self!

Sadly, Arias, your problems are of your own making.  No one "caused" them for you.  The sooner you realize that you are responsible for your own actions, the happier you will be!  

No one is unjustly attacking you, no one is jealous of you, no one wants to BE you! You can't just put the "hater" label on everyone who doesn't fall for your juvenile headgames!

Your days among us are numbered Arias. Actually, your time is measured by those 12 men and women deciding your fate right this very moment.  You are sadly mistaken if you believe Nurmi will win you an exit from Perryville as you appeal; your minions are wrong.  Too many sane, logical individuals are beginning to believe that the only reason you aren't classed as a serial murderer is that your own narcissistic brain believed you were to "Einstieny" to be caught in your first murder! Everywhere, parents of sons are relieved that you are incarcerated. You are a dangerous woman.

There are some people who say you are "beautiful", mostly men with ulterior motivesfor using those words.  What few appealing physical features you possess are overwhelmed by the ugliness of your heart and the depravity of your thinking.  You aren't even a good sociopath!  The best of those can convincingly perform acts ofcontrition, and pretend to have remorse.  You cannot even do that.  You are pathetic.  

Most of us wish that we were able to understand what went so horribly wrong in your life that would cause you to do something so heinous? Those of us were were TRULY abused children, those of us who were abandoned in garbage cans, trailers or dumpsters...those of us who would urinate in fright when our parents screamed our name, those of us who had to hide the bruises, welts and scars that our parents inflicted...we are the ones who resent your "sad story" about being hit with a spoon!  How I wish my parents HAD USED A SPOON!

Your stories of "not wanting to hurt Travis" by scratching his eyes is as fake as your ninja story.  Those of us who have been choked KNOW that you think NOT about hurting the person attacking...ONLY of removing the hands from your throat! Lies, all lies.  Travis never slapped you! Thirty years ago, my husband slapped me, and I still remember how it felt, where it was and what happened afterward.  I don't need to stop and think, it's as clear today as it was the day it happened!  If Travis broke your finger, where is the x-Ray proving your finger was broke?  Not in evidence!  The break in my wrist that my ex-husband caused is STILL visible in X-Rays!  Where are the phone call to the police?  Nicole a Brown Simpson had photographs, police reports,etc.  Where are yours? You don't have them, because it never happened.

Maybe you really don't understand our anger and frustration.  I pray that at some point in your incarceration, you will come to realize just why we are so angry!  I pray that Travis gets Justice.  And I pray that you receive the verdict which you earned and so richly deserve!